Science of Conscience

The moral ethics which prevail in my surroundings are a mystery to my ingrained mind.I mean on what basis can u label a gesture ethical?????
It varies from indivisual to indivisual.
Just Like what i could not conclude today,one of my very close friend today told me the biography of his past one year. Here he had this beautiful,charming and good lookin wife with whom his family he tied a bond for d lifetime.He had a wonderful time over a next few months during which he was blessed by his parents,wished by friends(including me) n treated felicitously by near and dear ones.
But unlike many cases he had a fallout in his relation and was soon heading for courts for split up!

He was not enjoying his relation and compatiblity was not just there.He thought like mad for such an extreme decision but had no choice but to part ways.The lady was happy with the dissociation and so divorce finally occured!

Soon after depression followed and my friend entered a shell and many including me lost contact with him.

I came to know later dat dis guy later met a girl with whom he fell in love and soon they are engaged.He did not want to rush up with things and wanted to spend quality time with her.He offered for a live-in relation for the time bieng before marriage, to which she agreed readily(so called "broad minded").

The hurricane was soon to follow and as expected the parents of my friend refused to accept the relation.

Poor guy!!! No?? Has no where to go. Has faced Hell! Is facing Hell! And.. what next????

I am myself confused weather he is right or wrong. Our society does not accept this till now and is morally very unethical for them. BUT then..... where is he to go?? If he wants happiness in his life and if that is giving his life a better reason to be... then be it. As normal person we might think that such things happen(split up) and one should move on but for him he does not have the heart to face that again.He is engaged and there is mutual understanding then why this 3rd party interference?? Is it right or wrong?? Let me know! and keep in mind that whatever happens its his life which would eventually be affected!!