Saturday, October 31, 2009

Memories of the Past

The thing that troubles and ceases to last,
is not your today but the memories from the past.

As a kid u were bullied for something you spoke,
and now u live in a shell completely hidden and broke.

That one small thing which forbores to part,
is not your today but the memories from the past.

A girl came to your life and you loved her from the soul,
she said a dubious No for some reasons never known.

Now that you yearned for love and having faced the pain,
you speculate the situation and think the world's insane.

Now if today again you love some other soul,
you wont ever say and refuse to play your role.

what is it that is stopping your heart,
its not your today but the memories from the past.

In all your future endeavors try to keep in mind,
every day is new and nothing is wrong or right.

don't let those feelings take your future apart,
its not your today but the memories from the past.

Tuesday, July 29, 2008

Science of Conscience

The moral ethics which prevail in my surroundings are a mystery to my ingrained mind.I mean on what basis can u label a gesture ethical?????
It varies from indivisual to indivisual.
Just Like what i could not conclude today,one of my very close friend today told me the biography of his past one year. Here he had this beautiful,charming and good lookin wife with whom his family he tied a bond for d lifetime.He had a wonderful time over a next few months during which he was blessed by his parents,wished by friends(including me) n treated felicitously by near and dear ones.
But unlike many cases he had a fallout in his relation and was soon heading for courts for split up!

He was not enjoying his relation and compatiblity was not just there.He thought like mad for such an extreme decision but had no choice but to part ways.The lady was happy with the dissociation and so divorce finally occured!

Soon after depression followed and my friend entered a shell and many including me lost contact with him.

I came to know later dat dis guy later met a girl with whom he fell in love and soon they are engaged.He did not want to rush up with things and wanted to spend quality time with her.He offered for a live-in relation for the time bieng before marriage, to which she agreed readily(so called "broad minded").

The hurricane was soon to follow and as expected the parents of my friend refused to accept the relation.

Poor guy!!! No?? Has no where to go. Has faced Hell! Is facing Hell! And.. what next????

I am myself confused weather he is right or wrong. Our society does not accept this till now and is morally very unethical for them. BUT then..... where is he to go?? If he wants happiness in his life and if that is giving his life a better reason to be... then be it. As normal person we might think that such things happen(split up) and one should move on but for him he does not have the heart to face that again.He is engaged and there is mutual understanding then why this 3rd party interference?? Is it right or wrong?? Let me know! and keep in mind that whatever happens its his life which would eventually be affected!!